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Myopia
The biggest challenge I have in coaching clients is myopia. I’m not talking about the ocular condition requiring glasses but rather the short-sightedness in your brain. It’s a natural, human condition of which we all suffer. The good news is our year is still in its infancy. But like January, it too will pass quickly into 2011. And being myopic, or short-sighted, is the best way to NOT get what you want in 2010.
Myopic Offenders
Some of the greatest myopic offenders of your 2010 goals include the bathroom scale, special events, stress and saboteurs. So let’s look at each one of these and how to turn a potential stumbling block into a hurdle that—once you clear—only strengthens your resolve.
The Bathroom Scale:
The bathroom scale consistently messes with my clients heads. What’s ironic is that very same scale is something that can exalt your emotions and resolve; but it’s a wily beast—SO BEWARE! During Phase One it is highly recommended that you weigh yourself only once per week. But how many people actually do that? My experience says not many. You think you can handle the truth?? Daily weigh-ins are quite adept at throwing you off track completely. Some typical scenarios include: “I’ve been following the program to a T for the past four days but when I stepped on the scale this morning I hadn’t lost even one pound! This program isn’t working!!” Or another popular one goes something like “Yesterday I went out with friends and had just one Margarita and a few chips and salsa (fill in your own off-plan food of choice) and this morning I’ve gained two pounds!! I did everything else right and been following the plan…etc, etc.” In my opinion the bathroom scale is a main offender because it has this incredible ability to completely take your vision of a healthy body and reduce it down to a single number on a single day.
Special Events:
The great American quasi-holiday, Super Bowl Sunday, was last weekend. For a lot of my clients it’s a special event. It may not be yours, but there’s plenty more every month. The myopia associated with special events say “it only comes around once per year; I can allow myself a little time off and then get right back on plan Monday morning.” Good luck. Again, my experience says a special event can throw you off track for weeks, months or completely. What’s the big deal? In 2011 when you write your history, will it include you getting exactly what you wanted in 2010 or will it say something like “had some great hot wings, chips and beer.” Special events are a main offender because all you see is that event. What you don’t see is the same event in 2011 will include “off program” foods because you are at your ideal weight and you’ll plan for it and enjoy it! Reminder: Phase One is not the rest of your life.
Stress:
This is a tough one. I’ve read that the majority of overweight and obese people are emotional eaters. Stress can come from anywhere at any time and we are all susceptible. The best thing you can do right now is to plan ahead of the stress because you know it’ll happen sooner or later. This will not only help you stay on track but set you up for a lifetime of what you really want. The last part of chapter 19 in Dr. A’s Habits of Health is devoted to de-stressing techniques. Healthy behaviors include: De-stress your job, exercise, get out and about, go natural, laugh, focus on the positive, stop challenge and choose, breathe deeply. I deem stress a main offender because it attacks emotionally and, at the time, makes itself more important than anything else including your vision of a healthy body.
Saboteurs:
Saboteurs are everywhere and can be your own family, your friends and the people you associate with. They are what I call Trojan Horse offenders because their words are often shrouded in “good intentions”. A saboteur can also be the voice in your own head. Anyone or anything that says you CAN’T do what you really want is a saboteur. Beware. The myopia associated with these people, and these thoughts, is that words are more powerful than your vision of what you want. But we know this is not true. Support is one of the most critical factors in your success. As your health coach I know YOU CAN! And you know you can too. You already have in your possession the vision, belief and passion to get exactly what you want in 2010. So don’t let them play your mind.
What Do You See?
What you see is what you get. Vision your healthy body right now regardless of where you are on the journey. See it clearly in your head and pull up that vision frequently during the day. See it the first thing in the morning and just before you go to bed. Do this and the laws of nature will manifest in your life that which was already created in your thoughts. Antonyms of myopia include far-sighted and wise. How to get what you really, really, want is no secret. It’s simply what you focus your thoughts on.
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